Growing old in Tuscany: the story of an elderly Tuscan lady

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07/02/2009 - 12:48

This is the story of a Tuscan lady in her seventies who fell seriously ill and how she is coping with life afterwards.  One day recently this elderly lady suffered a stroke.  She was rushed to the local District General Hospital and after several days in intensive care she recovered but was left paralysed on her left side.  During her stay in hospital her whole family visited her in turn to feed her, cloth her, and to keep her company. (I am told this is normal for italian families.)  As the whole family had to work for a living they arranged a shift system in order not to fall foul of their employers.  Soon the old lady recovered and doctors needed the bed for more urgent cases.  However, not being entirely fit to go home, she was transferred to a small community hospital and there she remained until she was well enough to go home.  At home she needed constant care especially there was a need to turn in her bed several times a day to prevent bedsores.  The family trekked on to the local Commune for help.  Yes said the Commune but there is a wailting list and somebody would be available to help in about 3 months time and that help would only be for 2 hours a day. (I am told there is no District Nursing service in Italy.)  How she would cope during the interval was left to the family. This elderly lady is on a basic pension of around €500 a month.  Beacause of her disability she gets another €400 per month from the Government.  The whole family works so cannot look after her.  She cannot look after herself.  The family has decided to find a live-in companion.  After consulting the local unions they found an eastern european lady.  No Italian was available in the locality as most of them were employed on seasonal work in the tourist industry, the rest shunned that kind of work.  The cost was around €1800 per month plus board and lodging.  On top of that she has her househoòd bills to pay and drugs and other medical care that the Italian NHS will not pay for.  The family cannot afford to assist the elderly lady financially as they themselves are financially over-committed.  The recession is making life very difficult for them!  The alternative is to go in a residential care home at the rate of €60 per day (around €1800 per month).  She could let her flat and use the income to subsidise her expenses.  She is fiercely independent and will not consider this option.   The financial future is bleak, when her savings run out this lady will have to sell her flat. The story continues..... To those who read this I hope it gives you an insight into the plight of countless elderly people in Italy.  I will continue with this story as it unfolds as it provides also an invaluable insight into the services available to the frail and elederly in Italy.  Obviously as funding for the NHS has been regionalized there might be intra-regional variations. As for us it is providing a lot of material for a review our finances should we decide to retire and settle in Italy.

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A sad story Serge. But much the same could apply in the UK.If you are old, require care, own your own home and have no dependants living in it with you, then that has to be sold to finance your nursing care. And a decent place does not come cheap.This was the case for my mother-in-law.If funds had run out then she would have been required to move to a place where we would have been very unhappy to see her in, so the family would have had to top up, over and above the basic allowance (cannot remember what this is now.)So not so different. What happens here, if you have no money?, I can only assume that in those circumstances the state provides.A

Selling the home and going into care could happen in England.  I understand Scotland funds residential care.  I do not know the situation in Wales.  As you know there has been much controversy in England about payment for residential care.  Community services for the elderly in the UK is much more developed with community occupational therapy, home help, a district nursing service, day centres.  Old people with only a basic old age pension can apply for income support and there is also a winter fuel allowance, a fixed amount and, I understand, some more is available depending on the outside temperature.  The health services work in partnership with the local authority and the voluntary services to provide a comprehensive range of services to maintain the elderly active in the community.  Local authorities would also have a very well developed social housing policy for the elderly.  People over the age of 60 do not pay prescription charges and are entitled to free public transport.  Services rarely vary throughout England as it is national service.  Local variations may occur depending on the level of support available from the voluntary services. In Italy the number of elderly is forecast to increase to approximately  a third of the population, so the pressure on Government finances from the elderly is greater.  There is much debate on how to care for this section of the population who provide a lot of baby sitting and child minding support to the family.  As you know the management of the NHS in Italy is in the hands of the Regions.  I am learning a lot about services for the elderly through these kinds of stories.  My understanding of the situation in Italy is that apart from hospital care many of the community services available through the Communes are generally means tested.  Some would offer vouchers and some would provide the services.  Here are a few of the services that I know are available to the elderly: Le Case di Riposo for the self sufficient and partly self sufficient, le case albergo: a type of apartment block with communal facilities, le case protette: sheltered housing for the aged, i centri sociali anziani a type of pensioners club normally run by the pensioners themselves, l'assitentenza domiciliare : a home help service sometimes jointly with the ASl or private organisations, il servizio di accompagnamento: accompanying or companion service for people to get around run normally by volunteers, i pasti domicilio: meals on wheels normally provided by the comune, soggiorno di sollievo: therapeutic holidays to the seaside or spas.  There are also discount schems available to the elderly and some of them are well developed and are run by the communes.  Italy has more doctors than than the UK with an average of 700 people per doctor. Regional  spending on care of the lederly varies between the regions.  The latest figures I have seen is that the highest in 2003 was Trentino Alto Adige with €466 per capita and the lowest was Calabria with €19 per capita.  The share of total social resources spent on the elderly was the highest in Campania (40%) , 12% in Calabria, on average 30% in the north. The southern regions tend to give more vouchers and more residential care is provided in the central and northern regions. I know many elderly couple in Italy would sell their homes whilst retaining the "uso frutto" for life to fund a live-in companion.  It is easier to find a buyer as the unit will be offered at a substantial discount.  The Italian Government recognise this kind of property transaction and give a graduated discount on the purchase tax.  In the UK it is now becoming more popular to enter into an equity release scheme.  

 It is all very sad, Serge, but I have to agree with Angie, and this is happening throughout the EU. If you are unable to look after yourself in old age - and the family is unable to lend a hand due to circumstances - if you have a property under your sole name, it will be sold and the money will pay for the nursing home/care services. If you do not have a property, the government will cover the difference between your pension and the nursing home cost. The big difference will be the choice of places. If you have enough money, you will be able to afford a nice place and your family will be able to choose the one they think will be the best for you (and for themselves, so that they can come and visit you). Otherwise, you will have to accept whatever is offered and the government will deduct a high percentage of your pension and provide the difference.In the past, families used to take care of their elderly and infirm. Nowadays, work and family commitments make it very difficult for them to do that. Many years ago, there was always a daughter or niece whose life was devoted to silently look after the elderly. There are still some cases, but they are becoming very rare. Times do change.....As for choosing where to retire, this is a very personal decision. If you choose early retirement, normally there will be quite a few years in front of you when you will be able to look after yourselves, so you decide where you go and enjoy these years. As you become older and you are still very attached to your family in your country of origin, perhaps it may be better to go back there, providing that you know you will have sufficient means not to become a burden to anyone. Also, keep in mind that as we grow older we loose foreign language skills and you may feel a bit lonely if you cannot freely communicate with others. It all depends on the personal circumstances. One thing is certain, we do grow older, not younger. 

I agree with you much of what you say.   One should live the dream when one is fit and healthy.  There are different considerations when you are frail and elderly and require the extended support of the family.  I know a lot of people from the commonwealth who emigrated to the UK in the 50's and 60's who have returned to their home countries as "returned residents" for the reasons you mentionned.

After reading through all the comments on the subject of how to finance "care" in your declining years, Gala's comment :  "The big difference will be the choice of places. If you have enough money, you will be able to afford a nice place and your family will be able to choose the one they think will be the best for you (and for themselves, so that they can come and visit you). Otherwise, you will have to accept whatever is offered and the government will deduct a high percentage of your pension and provide the difference."  stuck in mind because  I took the responsibility of finding a suitable retirement home for my aunt after her husband died.  At the time she was suffering from mild dementia.  She had good financial resources so there was no problem in moving her closer to the remaining family and we found a very nice private retirement home where they could manage her illness. She was reasonably happy there given she'd led a very active, independent life, up until then.   The BIG problem came a few years later when the dementia had developed to such a level where she was no longer able to make decisions for herself and the family was asked by the carehome concerned (in a sympathetic way) to move her on.   She needed a home that could offer a much higher level of care (an EMI Unit in England).  Despite finance not being an issue, she had enough money to see her cared for privately for the rest of her life, finding a private carehome with the right resources to manage her illness and make her comfortable was another matter.   She was not entitled to request entry to any of the national health funded EMI carehomes with their clean modern facilities and trained staff that we'd found in our area.  NO, because she was self funding, (she did receive a non means tested allowance from the government), we were given by the council a list of privately managed EMI carehomes that we could apply to. On inspecting all within 20 miles, we found them to be far more expensive than the council funded homes, and in most cases (not all) the furniture and furnishings were battered and tatty (because of the illnesses and disabilities of the residents), and often smelly and offputting.   The homes were run, of course,  as businesses. We live in an affluent area in the south of England with plenty of resources including homes run by well known private care companies.  In the end we chose a private EMI registered home with wonderful management and staff, but certainly, if my aunt had been in her right mind, she would have been horrified to see her standard of living so reduced.  This is getting very long, and I simply want to point out that if you develop a mental illness in your old age, having finance available to you does not guarantee the best care. I say, enjoy life now, and don’t aim to waste the childrens’ inheritance on what may turn out to be inferior EMI care. For myself, (and dementia runs in the family), I believe if the time comes and I need it, the government will offer better EMI care than any money I have left can buy for me. Sorry to be so depressing !!!!!!!!

As already said, the situation is not really any different in the UK.  If you have your own house or any savings you are basically on your own.  It is quite often difficult even to get advice in these circumstances.  The actual situation varies widely throughout England - what is actually promised by the politicians is very rarely delivered to those that need it.  Although social services will arrange home helps, personal care, etc - it all has to be paid for by the recipient - and often at quite high rates.  There is a big difference in England between those that need 'care from a registered nurse' and those that need personal care.  The former are the responsibility of the NHS and such care is 'free at the point of deleivery'.  However, things that the lay person would consider 'nursing' are not considered as such by the NHS and come under Social Services - and have to be paid for. Don't get me started on how Scotland gets things for free that have to be paid for in England!

The point I was making at the end of my story is that should I decide to retire in Italy I must review my finances as there are different financial considerations e.g:     I will only be entitled to the basic state pension: annual pension increases are available as Italy is in the EU (that is what I am told by my Pensions Advisor).    I will not be entiltled to any of the other financial benefits based on UK residency.    I will not be entilted to contribution-based support available to Italians (INPS).  I am going to study what is available through this website.  http://www.comune.torino.it/en/health/income-support-amounts-av.shtml . I may be wrong! I hope so!    Unless services like meals-on-wheels are available to immigrants on a residence-basis and not on a contribution- basis I will not be able to use them.  (Again I hope I am wrong, the story of this lady has made me more aware!)There are lots of uncertainties and there is not the equiavelent of Citizens Advice Bureau that I can seek help from to guide me through the maze of Italian legislation. I have talked to my Italian lawyers and accountants who tell me that the Italian Government change the law so quickly by Decrees that any advice given to me today may not be valid tomorrow. I must also allow for fluctuations in the future value of Sterling, unless the UK joins the Eurozone.  There are also uncertainties under the Double Taxation Treaty between the UK and Italy on how all my income from all sources will be taxed.  Bearing in mind these uncertainties and the cost of living-in help or residential care in Italy I have decided to review my finances with my pensions/investment advisor during my three months summer stay in London. As regards national comparisons these are at best spurious.  I only stated them for analysis. Conclusions will be drawn by readers taking into account their personal experience mostly.  When I used to lecture on health statistics I always opened my talk with the following: "Statistics are like uderwear, what they hide are more interesting than what they show".  Forgive the rudeness, but is is true.I know and agree that residential care has to be paid for elther in full or partly by the resident, whether in the UK or in Italy,  It is the choices that are available to the residents of the two countries on how to top up their savings that are important.  I have mentioned selling the  freehold and keeping the"uso frutto"  as a way of raising finance in Italy (It is also done in France, my nephew has  just bought a house that way in France).   In the UK equity release schemes have entered the market in a big way recently but they still have to gain popularity.  I helped a family member some 20 years ago to raise an income in that way.  She was 65 at that time and she went on to live for another 20 years and received an income every month for that time.  (The insurance company was really upset!) I received a nice letter from her before her death thanking me for doing this for her! She did not have to rely on anyboby, she lived in her house, but left not as much as she would have in her will but the family did not incur inheritence tax.  In the end the Chancellor paid for it not on a pay as you go basis, but on her death by receiving less inheritence tax.  By contrast my best friend in London, needed money for day-to- day living, my suggestion of an equity release scheme for their their £600,000  house met with such aggressiveness from the wife and we have never spoken since.  They continue to live frugally whilst the value of their home increases (not so much recently).  Had they released £300k for example, they would still continue to live in the house, enjoy a higher standard of living, and have a living-in help and leave no inheritence tax liability.  As it was (before the new inheritence tax change) their heir would have had to pay £116K tax to the Chancellor. So they denied themselves a contribution of £116k from the Chancellor for a higher standard of living!  Selling the home should be the last option, raising finance on a buy-to-let interest only mortgage and letting the house is another possible way.I apologise if at any time if I have given the impression that the UK is better! That was not my intention.  I merely stated that services are better developed in the UK and more integrated between health and social services and that UK social housing policies are also better developed. As an example in the Tuscan village where I have a house there is hadly any social housing and there are 5000 residents!  I hope I did not give the impression that services are more freely available in the UK. If I did my sincere apologies. My journey through the plight of senior citizens in Italy and cultural differences between Italians and I continues everyday: my daughters' nonna and zia (they are Italians) who are in their seventies received yesterday each a bill of €500 for gas.  This is one month's pension.  This is their plight as Italian pensioners and it is very close to home!  They are very proud and will not accept help from us.    

 If you do a Google search using the words "ITALY CAREGIVER" you will find some interesting information on the topic of caring for the elderly similar to this article:www.4fate.org/italy.pdfA Romanian lady who lives near our place looks after an elderly lady and goes to spend a few hours with her twice a day. The family pays for her services as they are too busy to look after the elderly relative. I was told by a neighbour that there are many cases like this one.

This article hits it right on the nail, the only difference between my true story and this article is that the wages have increased substantially.  A recent article in an Italian magazine indicates that there are some 300,000 eastern european workers in Tuscany, mostly from Romania.  They are doing a great job in caring for the elderly, cleaning or working in the building industry!  It is also true that it is very common in our part of Tuscany to have this kind of help.  Near where I have my Italian house there are three large villas each with a widowed elderly lady with lived-in help from eastern europe.  I recently became aware of this when my estate agent friend told me that these villas have been on the market for 3 years and there have been no takers.  I was also told that the families have taken out loans to finance their upkeep.  With the reccession the market for large villas have virtually collapsed in our part of Tuscany.  Our old lady is little bit lucky because the demand for flats is beginning to show some signs of recovery.  There are also investors who would be prepared to buy the freehold of her flat and leaving her the "uso frutto" until her death. These investors are not too keen on large villas as the return is not that good.  The same investors make their money when the old person dies early.  Pretty gruesome you would say, but I suppose this is life and they are doing the elderly person a favour by letting her keep her home until death.

But we can only compare. I worked in social housing in the Uk for many years, it is now residual, you just dont get it  as any right. most local authorities ,housing assc  are now dealing with homelessness, waiting lists are closed. There is no safe haven there. Actually whilst some old people accept meals on wheels, many dont with the best will it is still something you have to pay for , you might be better served forming an alliance with the local cafe or pub.its a bit late but I do believe that you can still whilst resident here, also claim for UK benefits. But in the end you must decide where you want to live, and if you feel worried that Italy wont serve you well when you become old, then it may not be your choice to live here.me , life is full of choices and in the end, you can only do your research and then make a decision. I hope that you find one you are comfortable with.A

As Serge says, selling a property when reaching old age and keeping the usufruct is quite common in France It is called "viager" and it is usually arranged by Notaries who oversee the transaction. There is a well known case where the buyer ended up paying double the real price of the home and this was because the original owner and beneficiary of the usufruct was Mme Jeanne Calment, who lived in Arles (French Provence) up to the ripe old age of 122 years and 164 months. When she reached the age of 90, and taking into account that both her daughter and grandson were already dead without descent, the notary offered her to buy the house to supplement her income. The notary was only 47 at the time. He continued to pay until he died (before Mme Calment) and his widow continued to honour the contract until the death of Mme Calment. She ended up paying far much more than would have been expected, but she said that she was happy to do it because her husband was a very honest professional.Concerning the choice of a country to retire to, it is necessary to do an extensive research to ascertain whether moving will be beneficial or at least whether the move is not going to cause unnecessary hardship. I think that the problem is that when we reach early retirement in our late 50's early 60's we still have a lot of life to live and we think that we are going to enjoy that for ever. It is a tendency to look at retirement life through rose-tinted glasses, but the reality may not be idyllic.This happens not only when we move overseas. Sometimes we decide to relocate within our own country and we tend to go to some resort or holiday place that we have visited in the past. Then, many people find out, the hard way, that there is a big difference between holidaying and living permantly in any place. Also, in doing so, many people cut their links with family and friends and you do need that contact as you grow older.There are many factors to be considered; however, the final decision is a very personal one.